Monthly Archives: August 2017


Stepmum Do’s and Don’ts

I’ve recently been thinking about the ‘Dos’ and ‘Don’ts’ of stepparenting. It’s a bit of a minefield at the best of times and having searched through about 20 articles, I can’t honestly say I’ve found one that applies to real life. It’s all very well saying ‘Do have a grateful […]

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Stepfamily Smiling Outdoors

Too Close to the Fire: Why a Stepparent Sometimes Needs to Step Back to Appreciate the Beauty

I’ve stepparented for over six years; long enough for six children in a vehicle, around a table, and as a part of everyday life to feel “normal.” It’s hard to recall a time when my life only included my two children. I’ve seen these kids, his and mine, grow from […]


3 Words Every Stepmom Knows

I think it can be universally agreed that most girls don’t dream about becoming a stepmother when they grow up. I didn’t even know what a real-life stepmom was until I stayed at a friend’s family home over the holidays when I was 19. This was an eye-opening experience for […]

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Stressed Stepmom

When “Step” Means Step Back

  I love to laugh. Laughing is my favorite. And I’ve been told on more than one occasion that my laugh is quite recognizable for its volume and intensity. So the day my husband said, “It’s good to hear that laugh again”, it hit me. Time to take stock. What […]


Why I Miss the Stepmom

If someone told me eight years ago that I would be missing my children’s stepmom I would have told them they are freaken crazy. No way in the world could I ever miss that lady. The struggles, arguments, and disagreements were enough to make anyone pull their hair out. Walking […]

Pensive Stepmom